Couldn't agree more with this. I found through experince that every man that ever told me his ex was witholding access to his own children was actually lying. Two were being unreasonable refusing to make arrangements, but expected to be able to pick their children up at a moments notice, if they had a free afternooon after not seeing them for months. 3 would continually let the children down until the mother refused to make any more arrangements as the children got so upset when their father stood them up. Of course the solicitors letters arrived the moment she said no. And the rest were just plain lying. But yet these men still go round pedalling the lie that women are refusing them access to their children.